For some reason, last summer, I heard the question a lot. "What does your husband do?".
I don't remember hearing the question the summers before. I always answer "I don't have a husband'. Then, without fail, the question is "Are you a teacher?"
The question was asked many times last summer.
Although we know what they are really asking. "How do you pull this off?". Only by saying "What does your husband do?", well, seems a more polite way to ask.
The truth is, this is EXACTLY how I wanted my summers to end up. I just didn't figure out what I wanted the other 9 months to look like. We all have to be careful what we put out into the universe - be very specific. I knew what I wanted out of my summers. I just wasn't sure what I wanted the other 9 months of the year.
Yes, I could have had that husband. The one where he keeps working and the kids and his wife go to the beach for the summer. He joins us with Carolyn's husband for a week. Then we get the rest of the summer with the kids at the beach. We meaning Carolyn and I.
Only my picture doesn't look like that.
It's a little more clear now. And my husband? He's not here right now. He will be here soon. But, until he joins us....... I"m not quite sure what he does.......